When it comes to love if you’re looking to have the love relationship that you desire, then I must say you have come to the right place. You know people tend to think of love as somewhere off in the distance.
They almost think of it as a breeze that eventually if they’re lucky they may feel it may blow in their direction but that’s not true love is everywhere and anywhere.
It is all the time love is omnipresent at any moment you have the ability within you because you are a co-creator of your reality to align with and connect with that beautiful feeling of love remember high flyers love is a vibration.
So by aligning with that vibration you open yourself up to the love that you truly desire in your life while no one can tell you what love is. The ambiguous poets, artists, writers, theologians, and philosophers have been trying to figure out exactly what love is.
Since the beginning of time, we can tell you that love is not neediness, it’s not wanting or jealousy. Love is not controlling. Love is not lusted oftentimes, people confuse lust with love say the following:
- Love is patient
- Love is kind
- It does not envy
- It does not boast
- It is not proud
- It does not dishonor others
- It is not self-seeking
It is not easily angered it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects trust always hopes and always perseveres.
So no one can tell you what love is but he can tell you how people who love action and how they treat each other when you’re in a deep profound state of gratitude.
When you’ve aligned yourself with the vibration or frequency of gratitude you are as close to love true love real love as possible so keep this in mind what we focus on what we think about what we believe.
We manifest – so with that in mind make a list sit down get a notebook out with a pen and make a list of the qualities that you desire in your lover.
Now you say well I’m already married or I’m already in a relationship do it anyway because the more you focus on the qualities and it’s not about wanting or needing or trying to change someone it’s you simply getting in touch with what qualities you need to focus on in your heart and in your soul that brings out this feeling of love from your soul from your heart and write down the qualities and doesn’t make them vague get specific.
And what we have found what we found that even people who are in a relationship who do this exercise and they focus on it and they think about it and they meditate on it the people that they’re in the relationship with start to develop those qualities it’s amazing.
I also believe that you need to write down some red flags or deal breakers especially if you haven’t met someone special yet because when you do and you have that feeling going through you. You’re going to ignore the red flags you’re going to ignore the deal-breakers so write them down now.
What has worked for so many people is they take their list and they write it out all the qualities they desire and then on the backside they write out the deal-breakers and then they fold it up and they put it in an envelope and they place it in their top dresser drawer
and once a week you can do it more often if you’d like but you only need to do it.
Once a week you pull that envelope out and you sit and look at the qualities that you desire no need to look at the deal breakers you understand what they are.
And you’ll know them when you see them just focus on the qualities next and make a decision right now that from this moment on that you’re gonna focus your life your energy your time around higher faster-moving vibrational energies and how do you do that you focus on peace breathing.
Just allowing it to be the peace you focus on the joy you focus on happiness
focus on gratitude and acceptance and courage.
If you’ll focus on these positive qualities you will automatically begin to raise your vibration which puts you in harmony with the vibration of love which allows love to flow easily and effortlessly into your life.
If you truly desire for someone else to love you and for you to have someone to love if that’s a deep desire that you have first pause and love yourself when you love yourself you expand your unlimited beliefs about your potential in every area of your life not just in your love area but in every area you have great potential because you are a co-creator of your reality.
You’re a step closer to opening the doorway where they are drawn to you. You see loving yourself draws this special person the one that you deeply love the one that is perfect for you it draws this person to you because now you’re not operating out of need and want and hope you’re operating out of connection alignment frequencies that produce harmony.
When you meditate focus on how good you feel knowing that you already have the love of your life in your life it’s not something you’re trying to do it’s not something you’re striving to do it’s already present remember that special person is already present and looking for you.
Next look for other areas outside of your relationship where you feel love and focus and expand that love perhaps you feel love for the homeless expand that love expand your time and energy helping the homeless it’s animals expand your time your love and
your energy helping animals you know whatever area it’s in.
Put your energy into that because as you expand that energy it affects all other energies and vibrations in your life so while you are doing this even if you’re in a relationship you need to be doing this because it’s going to make your relationship so much more fruitful and give it so much more flavor and connection it’s going to make it more special.
Finally, release past relationships let them go begin again clear away old pain. If you need to go through some clearing exercises you can read my other articles. I would be happy to help you
It’s not something that just automatically happens it’s a choice choose to trust. here’s your affirmation use this affirmation every single day and I believe you will be astonished at how good love feels and how love expands and grows in your life. how you are living a life filled with perfect love and harmony and joy.
I expect only love in my life.
I give love
I live love
I receive love
Expect to receive more love than you’ve ever received as you give more love than you’ve ever given.
Do you have someone you want to draw into your life?
For a deeply loving relationship, perhaps a specific person, maybe it’s an ex, maybe it’s someone you’ve just been noticing and feel like you’d like to know better. Whatever the case may be. Some say this technique is so powerful.
This is going to be incredible. I’m telling you, it’s just going to take you to places you’ve never been before. And it guarantees you’ll make this year the best year of your life.
I developed this technique and I’ve shared it with a few friends. They have come back to me and said, this is so powerful. It should be outlawed. It works too well. I’m going to share with you how to prepare, to use this technique. And I’m also going to share with you how to do it and make it work for you.
I believe that you deserve the money you desire, the love you crave, and the health and happiness you depend on. And we believe that with all of our heart and soul love seems to be the vibrational energy. That more people are craving now in our world than ever before.
Let me just say this, whatever you’ve been through, whatever you’re going through, you deserve to be in a deep, loving, happy relationship. I fully believe that the desires you have in your heart are there for a specific reason. They were put there by God or the universe or spirit, whatever you want to call it.
They were implanted and embedded in you for a reason. There are two possible reasons. Reason. Number one is that this person, no matter what is going on right now, this person is called into your life for a deeply loving relationship, or number two, this person is acting as an archetype, an image of vibrational energy, and someone better is coming into your life.
One of two reasons it’s either this person or someone better, their vibrational energy, their set point, their average vibrational energy affects you in such a profound way that you feel better when they are near you.
When they are in your life, you believe that your specific person will improve your life and you can improve theirs. Moving into alignment with the frequency of the person you desire will ensure that the person you desire will be drawn to you. Irresistibly this technique I’m about to share with you is so powerful.
It will make you irresistible. I mean, they will beg to be with you. And that’s important because this person has been called into your life for a reason. And that reason is love.
When I gave this technique to one of my friends, he told me, he says, I don’t think it’ll work. I’ve tried other techniques. And they haven’t worked. I’ve read all the books. I’ve done everything everybody’s told me to do, and nothing has worked. And he began using this technique. Now his ex had blocked him.
There was no communication for quite some time. And then all of a sudden, late at night, about two o’clock in the morning, maybe a little bit later, he got a phone call and the phone hung up. It was an unidentified number. And he said, I wouldn’t normally answer that at 2:00 AM, but I felt drawn to it. Then he got a call the next night.
And finally, on the third night, he got that person on the other end of the phone to begin talking. It was his ex. She missed him. She wanted to see him. He called me the next day. And he said this technique that you’ve given me is so powerful that it ought to be banned they’re together.
Now they have an incredible relationship and you can do it, but before you invoke this technique, be sure that the person that you desire to attract to you is the one that you want, or someone liked that person even better.
devote time to yourself to raise your vibration, to raise your frequency.
believe you are worthy of the love that you desire.
And this is extremely important. Fill your life with gratitude. I mean, not just now and then not just two minutes in the morning and two minutes in the evening, all day long, become the most grateful person you’ve ever met. Now here’s the actual technique.
Here’s all you need to do to draw love into your life. Find yourself a comfortable place. Turn off all the electronics. All the phones and television sets make certain you will not be disturbed for about 15 minutes after you’ve done that, and put yourself in a comfortable state.
You can listen to some music. You can breathe deep in through the nose, out through the mouth. You can do any kind of relaxation technique that you’re familiar with doing.
Just relax and feel at peace next, close your eyes and visualize often the distance, the small little dot, a little dot. Maybe it’s on a hillside. Maybe it’s far away down on the beach. Maybe it’s out in the forest. It can be anywhere. And then begin calling the person’s name and see the dot.
Get bigger and bigger until it forms the image of the person you are attracting. See the dot, get bigger and bigger until it is the person you see their face. They’re coming closer to you.
Now, as they come close to you, open up your arms and visualize that they are coming closer and closer until they are literally on top of you. And within you breathe them in deep.
You’re going to visualize that this person has come from a long distance away. And, as they get closer and closer, you feel their energy. You feel them and their energy field mixes with your energy field. It’s as if the two of you are in the same physical body. After you have felt them unite with you and you, and this specific person is United together.
Allow the screen in your mind to go white, open your eyes, take a deep breath, close your eyes and visualize them off in the distance again. And repeat the whole process over again and do it at least seven times in a row. Now that’s important.
It doesn’t take a long time. This whole meditation shouldn’t take any more than 10 to 15 minutes. This is a powerful technique.
Do you see what you’re doing? Are you drawing them into your energy field and your energy field and theirs are uniting. This is almost beautiful, it’s almost like you are in a deep spiritual connection, something deeper than even a sexual connection.
It’s so strong and it’s so powerful. It should feel so wonderful. I’ve had people tell me that literally, tears start flowing down from their eyes. As they’re doing this special meditation, it works. It’s powerful. Share your results with me. I will be happy to read about your experience.