The Effect of the Observer:
According to the Law of Attraction, we attract into our lives whatever we put our energy, attention, and concentration on, whether we want it or not. Because our ideas are made up of energy, people who think specific thoughts and vibrate in a certain way become magnets, attracting people who vibrate at a similar frequency.
“Birds of a feather flock together,” as the saying goes. Let’s assume you vibrate at 75. It’s highly likely that you’ll attract others who vibrate at 70–80, but it’s very rare that you’ll attract people who vibrate at 30, for example. You must become a “vibrational match” to the person you want to share your life with if you want to attract your ideal mate.
The Effect of the Observer:
The vibrations we create might be pleasant or negative, and the Law of Attraction will always respond to our vibrations by providing us with more of the same. You will radiate a positive energy and be surrounded by positive individuals if you are a really positive person. If, on the other hand, you are continually angry, uncertain, afraid, and so on, you are producing a bad vibration, and you will attract negative people, circumstances, and experiences into your life.
If you want to attract your perfect relationship, you must first determine what you are currently attracting and what vibration you are generating in this area of your life. If you’re not attracting the kind of romantic relationship you want, you’ll need to be extremely specific about what you want.
How do we get a clear picture of what we want?
It’s difficult to know exactly what we want in a perfect mate most of the time. Making a list of qualities and characteristics that you don’t like in your current or previous relationships is one of the best ways to become clear. You don’t have to concentrate on what you don’t want to attract; instead, take a quick look at what you don’t like or desire.
After you’ve made a list of roughly 40 to 50 features and characteristics that you don’t like in a partner, you may move on to building a list of qualities and characteristics that you do want.
The things we want are diametrically opposed to the things we don’t want.
Consider the following scenario:
What I’m not looking for:
- A partner who is uncaring
- A tumultuous relationship
- Responsibilities are not shared by a spouse.
What Am I Looking For:
- A considerate companion
- A connection that is harmonious
- A partnership in which we share equal duties
Continue with this exercise until you have a list of all the qualities you want in a mate, then concentrate solely on this list before moving on to the next phase, which is to become a “vibrational match” for the perfect spouse you wish to attract.
How can we become a “vibrational match” for the perfect spouse we seek? So, let’s say you want to attract a kind and caring companion to your list. It will be difficult for you to attract a loving and caring person if you are not caring and loving yourself.
You attract what you vibrate, according to the Law of Attraction. As a result, you must begin to raise your vibration in order to become more loving and kind. Only then will you be able to attract what you desire into your life.
The final step is to let your ideal partner come to you once you have become clear about what you want and elevated your vibration to attract your ideal spouse. The absence of doubt is referred to as allowing.
If you have a strong desire to attract your ideal spouse but are also filled with uncertainties, you will never be able to get what you want since you will be sending mixed signals to the world. If you have a strong desire and certain reservations, on the other hand, you will attract our ideal match, but it will take a little longer.
When you have a strong desire and no doubt, you are in the best position to create your ideal connection quickly.
You now have all of the materials you need to attract your dream relationship in your hands. Simply follow and carefully apply all of the steps listed above, and you will undoubtedly attract your ideal partner. Understanding and applying the Law of Attraction correctly will undoubtedly produce miraculous results in your life.